some more relevant info:
when i first created my pages i followed this steps:
1. i created a speakers page in English
2. inside this page, i clicked on 'duplicate' and the duplicated version was transfered into the Turkish pages section
3. i put Turkish content inside this duplicated versions and updated.
now the problem is whenever i update the English version, Turkish page is also updated automatically. before clicking on update i definitely tick the little box next to this line: minor edit- dont update translation. Although i dont want to update the trasnlated page, it updates it as well. Is that because i created those pages by duplicating?
PS: this is not a problem with custom fields, the heading was result of an early diagnosis. sorry if it is misleading...